Want a Happy Marriage? Here Are 5 Things About Your Bedroom You Should Pay Attention to
“Sleep is for the weak”
At some point in your life, you must’ve heard someone you know spout this nonsensical sentence, be it to stay up late or to make fun of another person.
If you’re a healthy working adult like me, you’ll probably value quality sleep more than pretty much any other leisure activities. In fact, we spend so much time in our bedroom we may even argue that it’s the most important room in the house.
In the world of fengshui, the bedroom is synonymous with husband and wife relationship, and the layout of your bedroom will determine if your marriage is a harmonious one.
As such, do try to keep these points in mind before you fall asleep next time:
1) Avoid placing a television set inside your bedroom
If I were to ask for a show of hands, I’m sure most of us are guilty of this. In fact, some of us might even have our television sets mounted on the walls of our bedrooms.
The television will disrupt the magnetic field inside the bedroom, and this might lead to mood swings. Further more, constantly watching TV will limit communication between the couple, adversely affecting their relationship in the long run.
2) Avoid positioning the air-conditioner at the head or foot of the bed
Having the air-conditioner blowing directly at your head or feet is considered to be undesirable, and can lead to health complications.
Falling sick constantly is also detrimental to a relationship as your mood will always be down in the dumps. On top of that, you’ll yet again be exposed to the exact same cause of your illness every night.
Talk about a vicious cycle that never changes.
3) Avoid placing a mirror at the foot of your bed
Having a mirror at the foot of the bed will affect your health and quality of sleep. In turn, the lack of sleep will affect your performance during the day, decreasing your efficiency at work and-
-Well, I think you know where I’m going with this.
Besides, having a mirror at the foot of your bed is like a horror movie cliche. Why would you want to risk scaring yourself the moment you wake up in the morning?
4) The essence of essential oils
Stressful day at work? Consider using some essential oils in your bedroom to help you relax and reduce your stress levels. Leave your issues back in the office- bringing your anger and stress home is nothing to be proud of.
Remember, nobody wants to see a grumpy person- especially after working hours.
5) Avoid placing sharp objects inside the bedroom
While there’s absolutely no reason for you to keep sharp objects inside your bedroom, be sure to remove them as soon as possible if you somehow have them.
In other words, keep knives, scissors, and can openers in your kitchen, where they rightfully belong. Sharp objects might lead to conflicts between the couple and disrupt the harmony inside the bedroom.
In conclusion:
While adhering to these fengshui setup can help promote good relationship between hushand and wife, a harmonious relationship will always begin with you and me.
As such, always put yourself in your significant other’s shoes whenever a problem arises. A little kindness and understanding goes a long, long, way.
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