Right Time, Right Place, Right Person: Fengshui Tips For Romance Luck

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Every year, on the 7th day of the 7th lunar month, two estranged lovers reunite with the help of a flock of magpies. Qixi Festival, also known as Qiqiao Festival, commemorates this special day, and is the most romantic festival of the lunar calendar.

Legend has it that the Goddess’s seventh daughter, Weaving Girl (Zhinü), descended from the heavens, fell in love with a mortal called Cowherd (Niulang) and married him. When the Goddess learned of this, she summoned the Weaving Girl back to Heaven and dissolved their marriage. However, the couple’s deep love for each other touched the Goddess and she allowed them to meet once a year on the 7th day of the 7th lunar month. On this day, a flock of magpies would form a bridge to reunite the lovers.


Today, many people have forgotten or are unaware of Qixi Festival and the significance of this special date. Amid our daily hustle and bustle, we may have neglected those around us but no man is an island. Love and fulfilling relationships are fundamental to life. So, read on to find out how you can improve your romance luck or attract your soulmate through fengshui and the philosophy of Tian Di Ren (天地人).

Boost romance luck with the concept of Tian Di Ren (天地人)

The philosophy of Tian Di Ren (天地人) places emphasis on being at the right place, with the right person, at the right time.

1) Grab Opportunities at the right time


2017 marks a Year of Double Spring (双春年). According to the Lunar calendar, an auspicious period to get married is during the intercalary 6th month, (23/07/17 – 21/08/17). Another significant date is during the Qixi Festival on the 7th day of the 7th lunar month (28/08/2017).

For couples, don’t forget to show your care and concern for your other half. A loving gesture, quality time spent together or even a thoughtful gift on special occasions such as the Qixi Festival can keep your romance alive.







For singles that are seeking love, particularly on social platforms, these auspicious timings encourage romance:

  • 11am – 1pm
  • 5pm – 7pm
  • 11pm – 1am

An auspicious day will also increase your chances of meeting the right person, so don’t forget to check out the Almanac! If you already have someone in mind, set a date on Qixi Festival, get some flowers and create your own love story!

Note: The abovementioned auspicious period is also great for improving interpersonal relationships.

2) Attract the right person


From a fengshui perspective, staying neat and tidy is not limited to spaces. To attract the right people and maintain harmonious relationships, appearance plays an important part. For example, did you know that wearing red or pink can help enhance romance luck? Read on for more useful physiognomy tips.

3) Type of hairstyles to attract your soulmate

Oval faces: Any hairstyle will do

Long-shaped faces: Hairstyle with prominent fringe

Round/Square/Heart/Diamond faces: Wavy, curly hairstyle

Sharp features at side of face (e.g prominent cheekbones) should be covered with hair

The area between your eye and temple is known as the Tao Hua region. Cat’s eye makeup (pointed upwards) can help attract potential suitors.
What kind of makeup should you wear?

  • Light-coloured rounded brows are most ideal.
  • Korean straight brows invites “bad” Tao Hua, which means attracting suitors with devious intentions who are not looking for a stable relationship.
  • If you are in a relationship but are still attracting undesirable suitors, you should draw straight brows.
  • Auspicious lipstick colours for 2017: cool colours with a tinge of blue or green.

Are you already in the company of the right person or trying to win the heart of a potential partner? A simple gift can convey love and sincerity. If you are considering buying flowers for your significant half or potential partner, these are the colours to consider:

  • Pink
  • Champagne Rose
  • Cream Rose
  • Red Rose

4) Create the right place


Last but not least, your environment has a direct impact on many aspects of your life, including romance. You should always keep all areas of your house clutter-free for smooth qi flow. This shall help improve romance luck. You can also display the following auspicious emblems in your bedroom or living room.

  • Flowers
  • Water fountain
  • Mandarin ducks
  • Double happiness magpies



In addition to adorning your home, there are minerals that can boost romance luck. Display or carry  them with you.

  • Rose Quartz
  • Pearl ~ this mineral helps promote good health too
  • Pink Kunzite ~ this mineral helps improve interpersonal relationships
  • Moonstone ~ this mineral helps to calm the mind

The approaching Qixi Festival reminds us to cherish our loved ones and stay united. So, mark your calendar and don’t wait. Improve your romance luck with the abovementioned fengshui tips. Good luck!